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So, how does this work?

If you have no prior experience with counseling, you may be wondering what to expect and what happens during a session.

 

To put it simply: we mainly sit and talk.

You tell me as much or as little as you like. I will listen to you and ask questions.

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Additionally, I may also offer to shed light on your topic in a different way - for example, we could re-enact a specific situation in the room, work with picture cards and other creative materials, or take guided “journeys” inwards. Sometimes tools like these can help to access emotions which are hard to verbalize or to access by simply talking.

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​​​We just talk, how does that help?

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The answer to this question is probably slightly different for everyone.

 

Many people find it relieving to be able to share their feelings, thoughts and worries with someone - some perhaps for the first time in their lives.

 

The sessions are often helpful in gaining more clarity. If we deal with a problem on our own, we end up going round in circles. Tackling it with someone who asks the right questions, it is possible to get to the heart of the matter more quickly.

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Something that is a part of all counselling sessions is getting to know ourselves better.

This helps us to recognise patterns in our behavior which sometimes make life difficult and to then find new ways of dealing with challenging situations. Lasting change is always a process of progress and steps back into old habits - here, too, it is helpful to have reliable support along the way.

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In our sessions I always provide a safe space for joint reflection, while offering new perspectives, and exploring possibilities and options together.

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Depending on whether you come alone or together (i.e. as partners or family), there is a bit of a difference in the way the sessions are structured.

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One-on-one counseling

The two of us sit across from each other - you talk, I listen.

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In the sessions we will focus on your experience, your emotions and needs. I may ask questions, offer my perception and perspective, and occasionally provide feedback.

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Any of your topics can be addressed - here are just a few examples:

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  • I feel stuck and don't know how to move on.

  • I'm frustrated with my job.

  • I feel guilty when I say "no" to others.

  • I keep repeating the same mistakes in my relationships.

  • I feel lonely.

  • I am lovesick and don't know how to deal with it.

  • I feel sad.

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Relationship counseling

You come together - as partners, as friends, as family or any other relationship constellation you are in.

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In the sessions we will figure out behavioral patterns you may find yourselves in, solve conflicts and concentrate on understanding the underlying issues that affect your relationship.

 

We will focus on your individual experiences, your emotions and needs, and we will also look at your relationship dynamics and work on changing them in a meaningful and sustainable way.

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Any of your topics can be addressed - here are just a few examples:

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  • We keep fighting about the same issues.

  • We feel stuck in our relationship.

  • One of us had an affair and now the trust in our relationship is violated.

  • We are friends and we also run a business together. This creates a lot of tension in our relationship.

  • Our kid is growing distant and we don't know what to do about it.

How do I know if this is for me?

​If you are unsure whether this is for you, the first session has a lower fee, so you can get a feel for it and see if it works for you. More on that here.

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If you would like to know more about who you would be working with, you can learn more about me and my way of working here.

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I am also happy to anwer any questions you may have beforehand.

Here are all the ways to contact me.

© 2022-2024 Daniel Hartmann
Psychosoziale
 Beratung
Stumpergasse 48/23, 1060 Wien

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